WCME 046: Relationships between Threes (Performers) and Fours (Romantics)

A Three’s known for wheelings and dealings,
Whereas Fours have intense and deep feelings.
But if each can persist
Instead of get pissed,
Their great love can shatter all ceilings.

Podcast listener Jenna wrote in to ask us about relationships between Threes and Fours. We know a lot about that particular combination, so here you go, Jenna!

  • The Four can help the Three connect with their heart, and stop to smell the roses
  • The Three can help the Four achieve, and escape the trap of “my emotions are the whole story”
  • A danger of being both image types (also “neither type really sees the other as they are”)
  • The Three’s achievement can trigger the Four’s envy
  • Deanna Troi (4) and William Thomas Riker (3)

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