Why is “falling in friend” hazardous to your heart?

I’ve been playing the Sims 3 again, in the evenings, to clear my head and chill me out enough to sleep. (Yes, I play a life-sim to relax. I’m weird. Known issue.)

I’m also reading “Finding Your Way in a Wild New World” by Martha Beck.

Turns out, these two things are related.


Watch the video! (6:20)

It’s all about being in a vast and rapidly expanding tribe, how that affects us, and how lonely it gets out here on the edge — and why we make poor friendship decisions because of it all.

And, of course, what to do about it.

I would love to hear your stories about perilous friendships and tribe memberships. Let me know how this resonated with you!

Feel clear and confident about your direction in life!


Do you wish you could follow your heart, but it seems impossible? I can help you find the clarity and courage you need.

In other words, I can help you find your path.